Wednesday, August 30, 2006

o8.27.o6...Pt. 3...Family and Friends

Finally, the best thing about Dad's birthday party, was the people! I found myself completely overwhelmed as there were both Bryants and Vandercars and friends from both sides of the family. There were so many people there that I don't see enough of...and I wanted to sit down and talk with ALL of them...which was impossible...but the day ended with a great appreciation for how much our family has been blessed by the great people we are privileged to call family and friends.

Vintage Vandercar's

then:


and now:



The black and white shot above is one of my top ten favorite pictures, ever. Years ago, one of Barb's kids saw this picture and wanted to know if we were on a field trip! Everyday was a field trip at the station!

The Moores:



The Haydens:



The Vandercars:



The Hoshaws:



The Hildebrandts:



The Pierces:



The Bryants:



Vandercar cousins:


good friends:


sharing memories:


making memories:



Directions to here:
Look around, see the people that look a lot like your mothers and fathers and say "Blest be the ties that bind"

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

o8.27.o6...Pt. 2...The History of the Log Cabin

For those of you who don’t know….the Log Cabin, featured here and showcased at the party was the building that housed my Mom and Dad’s business and was our playground while growing up. It was one of 4 buildings that made up The Vandercar’s Log Cabin Service Station and Market. The Cabin or “station,” as most people called it, was the main building and was the gas station part of the business. Attached to the cabin was an old one room schoolhouse that had been moved to our property and it was the “grocery” part of the business. On either side of these buildings was a garage for working on cars and a fruit stand for the fruit and vegetables my dad sold every summer.

Even tho it took me a long time to realize it, the Log Cabin and all it stood for is one of the main reasons I roam the backroads looking for the “sense of place” in old worn out buildings, gas stations, diners and motels. I know what history our buildings held…and when I pass by a closed, boarded up old building…I can close my eyes and imagine similar histories…it’s like the past whispering to me…something happened here…it’s pure Americana to me.


And Americana it was. My Mom and Dad were the proverbial mom and pop shop owners, back in the day when mom and pop places were where everyone shopped. Where you got gas on credit…and I don’t mean on your credit card. Where my dad or one of his kids, pumped your gas and washed your windshield. Where a community met for a bottle of pop and a card game. Where the fruit was so fresh you’d wait in line to pick it up on “fruit nights”

So, hopefully this explains and excuses some of my quirkiness and at times extreme obession for nostalgia. Those of you who shopped there know where I’m coming from.

So the cabin.

As far as I can gather, the Log Cabin was built by several men, including my Dad’s uncles, as a place for Grandpa Tilton to sell produce.
(Oldest picture of the cabin we have. These kids are Don Tilton's brother and sister).

It changed owners a few times and my Dad eventually bought the business.
He sold gas, cigarettes, candy, pop, gum, and later groceries and produce. He did small repairs such as tires, etc. One of the busiest times would be the summer, as every Tuesday and Friday he would make a trip to Benton Harbor Michigan and return with a truckload of fresh and frozen produce. Customers would place their orders in advance and would line the road on “fruit nights” to pick up their peaches, strawberries and apples.

(Janet in front of the fruit stand)

Each of us kids learned to pump gas, run the cash register and stock the shelves (greenbeans, yeah!). But I’m pretty sure, at least for me, our main job was to eat up all the profits in penny candy and to provide amusement for the slew of regulars that passed thru the station doors.

My Mom and Dad operated the business for over 30 years and Dad retired in 1976.

Both Dave and Doug Vandercar spent some time running the station after Dad…as well as a few others.
But for more than two decades it sat closed…whispering to those that passed by that “something happened here.”


In 2003, my family faced the overwhelming task of getting Mom and Dad’s house ready for sale. We had an auction and sold the house with the understanding that the buildings would be removed by the following May. My nephew, Jeremy was determined to see the cabin remain standing and several plans were made…everything from having it moved by a professional, to labeling it, dismantling it and putting it back together. I remember one winter night when we found out the cost of having a mover move it and everyone agreed it might not happen. As I looked at Jeremy and his long face, my heart sank with the thought of having to watch the station being torn down. But before long, my brothers, Jeremy and Jerry and others were huddled around Dave and Sandy’s counter discussing different ways to “gitter done” on their own.
They became my heroes…and “gitter done” they did!

After a weeks of back breaking swinging of sledge hammers and handiwork with tractors, jacks and lots of muscle, the cabin was sitting on top of a flatbed trailer ready to make it’s move.At the crack of dawn on one misty may morning, the cabin, with a police escort, rolled away from its original home and took a drive down Rt.2, under I-65, and turned the corner to its new home at the farm where Jeremy lives.
Over the next 2 summers it got a new roof, new porch, new ceiling and a new floor, lights and new décor and was ready for its reopening at Dad’s 85th birthday party.



It was great seeing friends and family in the cabin and on the porch, sharing their memories and stories about the "good ole days." Apparently, I'm not the only one that is nostalgic and hears old buildings whispering memories!

I give a huge “THANK YOU” to my family and especially to the Hayden’s for keeping this heirloom and “sense of place” on family property.



Directions to here: Get in the car, get on the back road, look for a scene with a "sense of place," close your eyes and hear the screen door slam shut, the bottle cap drop in the holder, the cash register ring, the cards shuffle and the old men laugh, smell the strawberries and smile at the lady behind the counter and the kid who's hiding behind her skirt and looking up at you. Who says you can't go home again?

Monday, August 28, 2006

o8.27.o6...Dad ~ The Log Cabin ~ Family ~ Friends

Robert Ray Vandercar:


Then..............................and................................Now

What a great day celebrating Dad's 85th birthday and the re-opening, restoration of the Log Cabin. It was great seeing Dad smile at all his well-wishers. It was emotional seeing new life come to a building that I once feared I would have to watch being torn down. It was heart-warming seeing family and friends reunited and reminiscing about days gone by and catching up on the latest and what's ahead.
There are lots of pictures...but I'll spread them out over the next few days. For now here's a few of the guest of honor: both then and now:Brothers and Sisters: then..............................and..............................now
Soldier.........................................................Veteran




Husband..............................................Brother-in-law


Dad..............................Uncle...............................Grandpa

The Kids

The Grandkids

The Great-Grandkids

all in all a very Happy Day...

check back later for more pictures of the Log Cabin and the Bryants and Vandercar Families.

Directions to here: watch 85 years of one man's memories show up in the faces of 3 generations....and one restored Log Cabin.

Saturday, August 26, 2006

o8.26.o6....Down on the farm

Aunt Mary and Barb got here yesterday and we went to the River last night for dinner.
Today we went to another farm down the road...one of the 9 dairy farms at Fair Oaks dairy.
The place is enormous, fanscinating and a little disturbing all rolled into one. It's like a milk factory...and the cows are the main workers. That's 3000 cows and that's just at the one dairy...take that x 9 farms and that's a lot of bossie lous.

I can't believe I left Bobble at home. There were photo opps everwhere.
But I can make up for it because after going to the State Fair, Sister Susie brought home yet another addition to the Bobble family...Bobble cow. Pretty soon we'll have our own farm.
Saturday night we went to Matt and Chari's for Conner's Birthday Party. He is 5!
Got a report on Dad from Dave, who checked in on him today. Dave says Dad is the miracle man. He came out of his room for all three meals, was joking around, remembered that Aunt Mary and Barb were here and remembered that he was having a birthday party!

Big day tomorrow!

Here's Conner's Birthday present from Great Aunt Nancy...The Conner Bobblehead:


Directions to here: Rise and shine on the farm, remember my mom everytime I see her sister's face, watch the cows on their merry-go-round milker and eat John Deere Tractor cake