Friday, June 22, 2012

Flashback Friday....So Long.....

Ruby, Garland, Betty


It was already 45 minutes past the time we should be leaving to make sure we didn't get stuck in traffic on the way to the airport.

After a week of seeing Ruby and Garland together, I hated to say the words:

"Well, Ruby. We should probably be getting on the road."

She looked down and said, "Oh, okay."

Garland, who never misses a beat....eased the heaviness in the air by perking up and almost shouting...

"Okay, Goodbye then!"
...like we were leaving to go pick up a pizza or run an errand.

That is Garland. He always has the perfect words: just the right thing at the right time.

Making a joke when things were too serious.
If he told you about a flaw in someone, he would counter it with a compliment.
Telling a story to bring a point home. And often the point would not be what you expected.

At his outburst, I laughed out loud.
Ruby shooed him.
Gayle gave the "that's my dad" look...
And Garland smiled a big smile...
even tho the look on his face was of a man who knew his time was short.

Ruby said her goodbyes and was overcome with emotion and went to the porch.
As she left, he said:

"So long....I'll see you on the other side."

....and I mentally changed my "status update" to:

"That moment when two old friends say goodbye, knowing they will probably not see each other again....... : (   "



1 comment:

momv <>< + said...

It is hard...tears